I now live my dream life with my dream woman. But it wasn't always this way...

This was me 11 years ago...

Back then my dating life was at breaking point. Rapidly approaching my 26^th birthday I was alone and realised that if I didn’t do something I would be condemned to a solitary life. This to me seemed unfair because at that time I was forging a career that I loved, had good friends, a supportive family and an excellent lifestyle in London. On the surface everything seemed fine but, it wasn’t.

When it came to women and dating, I was useless, shy, crippled with a lack of confidence and was not happy. In those days, I’d get around 2 phone numbers a year and go on one date that would go nowhere. Women were not a part of my life.

Change needed to come and I was determined to find it.

In 2013 I went on a dating bootcamp where I learned to approach

I spent 2 full days approaching women in London, applying the system my coaches had developed. I collected 8 phone numbers that weekend and now had options with women. All I needed was to be shown the way and given a little push.

There was just 10 weeks to go until Christmas and I was determined to consolidate my newfound skillset and never return to my old dating ways. I went out every Saturday and Sunday, approaching morning, noon and night. Phone numbers started to turn into texting conversations, which turned into dates and just before Christmas I started to bring women home. I had changed and there was no going back.   

The following years I met a lot of women and had success, but something wasn’t right

I was feeling hollow and empty. I was having scripted conversations and didn’t feel genuine. So, being honest with myself I had my first realisation. The only real change I had made to my dating life was being able to approach and believing I could change this area of my life. The hollow emptiness and lack of genuineness I was feeling was coming from saying lines, following rigid structures and not being myself. So, I dropped the lines and structures and brought more of my personality back into my interactions, instantly feeling freer and more authentic. My results with women skyrocketed. Saying lines was not the solution, I was.

What followed in my late twenties and early thirties was fantastic, happy times

I travelled the world with belief in myself and led a single life most men could never dream of. From Eastern Europe, the Middle East to Asia and South America I met some of the world’s hottest, most personable women and had a lot of fun. I wouldn’t have spent the time any other way. With my newfound confidence I enjoyed success in other areas of my life, particularly in my career which went from strength to strength and I bought my first house in London.

My dream woman, my dream life

Several years ago, I met my truly amazing wife from a cold approach right here on the streets of Sydney. After a while we started our relationship and since then have gone from strength to strength. I didn’t know it was possible to be this happy and for me, she is exactly the kind of woman I want to be in a relationship with.  

My dream life with women wasn’t achieved by some secret system. It came from being honest with myself and being honest with women. And thus, my motto, “Dating through honesty” was born. This, I believe is the key to a successful dating life and a happy long-term relationship.